It is easy to think about what is right in front of you, whether that be things that are bringing you pain or things that bring you pleasure. You may also find that you are just existing and going with the flow of life. I’ve lived like this many times, and will probably continue to struggle with this at times. There are two things that happen when you focus on earthly things or nothing – you are stagnant and collect dust or you live in reaction to what’s around you.

In the book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Steven Covey wrote about picturing yourself at your own funeral – what would others say about you? What do you want them to say about you? I’ve also heard a saying “who you are echoes throughout eternity.” Are you focused on things that will build a legacy that matters? We hear things like ‘be happy’ and ‘find yourself’ but I think there is more. Even the term ‘work/life balance’ can be a distraction – I prefer manage priorities in it’s place. You are one person with conflicting priorities, but have you ever stopped to think about what is the purpose behind your priorities? Do you just end up following the priorities of others?

In Colossians 3:17, Paul wrote “And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” Does your character show you are doing things for the Lord? Look at the fruits of the spirit and start by developing yourself. “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control, against such things there is no law.” (Galatians 5:22) While self control is mentioned last, I think it is what ties the other fruits together. It takes discipline to develop yourself and think differently. Jesus said “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness” (Matthew 6:33) and the but was in contrast with being “anxious about your life” (Matthew 6:25). What are you going to choose? Are you going to live with a focus of earthly things and your circumstances, or do you want to live with the focus of a mission? The choice is yours, don’t choose to collect dust.